'War' and Other Reasons People Move in Together: Analyzing Cohabitating Relationship Progressions in British Columbia

Erez Aloni, Adam Vanzella-Yang

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Abstract

This chapter presents findings from a qualitative study exploring the reasons and decision-making processes behind cohabiting couples moving in together in British Columbia, Canada. Interviews with 30 couples reveal that practical considerations, particularly financial and housing-related factors, were the most commonly cited reasons for starting cohabitation, while emotional and relationship-based reasons were mentioned less frequently. External events and catalysts also played a significant role in accelerating the transition to living together for many couples. The study highlights how the high cost of housing in metro areas serves as a strong incentive for couples to move in together earlier than they might otherwise prefer. The findings underscore the need for policymakers to consider how economic inequality and housing unaffordability shape relationship progression and stability. The chapter also discusses the legal implications of using the start of cohabitation as a marker for when couples become "spouses" entitled to conjugal rights and obligations, arguing that the move-in date should be given less weight considering the practical and financial motivations driving many couples' cohabitation decisions.
Original languageEnglish
Title of host publicationHouse Rules
Subtitle of host publicationChanging Families, Evolving Norms, and the Role of the Law
EditorsErez Aloni, Régine Tremblay
PublisherUBC Press
Pages238-265
ISBN (Electronic)9780774867412
DOIs
Publication statusPublished - 2022

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